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After news broke on Monday of Neale Daniher’s death, close friends and colleagues of the champion footballer who coached Melbourne gathered at the MCG.
Daniher had fought a gallant fight against motor neurone disease after his diagnosis in 2013. But Daniher’s passing, aged 65, still hit hard.
“We’re a bit shocked because he always bounces back … [but] you could sense it [his disease] was starting to really take hold,” said former Melbourne captain David Neitz.
On Monday, football figures and politicians including Prime Minister Anthony Albanesepaid tribute to Daniher, the courageous figurehead of the battle against MND. AFL chief executive Andrew Dillon said the sport was “heartbroken”.
Daniher’s death was confirmed just a fortnight before the King’s Birthday match between Melbourne and Collingwood, which has become synonymous with his FightMND charity and Big Freeze fundraiser.
The career of Neitz, who played more than AFL 300 games until his retirement in 2008, included Daniher’s entire tenure as Demons coach.
“He’s just been a phenomenal person to be around, to learn from … the giving attitude that he’s got, the selflessness,” Neitz said.
“He’s inspired an army of people to take up the fight, and they will continue to fight for him.
“The bloody beast has won this battle today, but they battles going to continue today, and Neale’s famous words are play on.”
Neitz and another former player, Paul Hopgood, spoke near Daniher’s Way – a walkway leading to the MCG that had already been named in his honour.
The pair had seen Daniher only a couple of weeks ago. While he was still cracking jokes, they could tell his condition was deteriorating.
“It’s a horrible beast because his mind was still fully active … you could sense the frustration,” Hopgood said.
“He’s just been such an outstanding human being.”
Daniher would be honoured with a state memorial service, Premier Jacinta Allan said.
”Right now, my thoughts and love go to [wife] Jan and the family, and I know the thoughts and love of all Victorians will be going to the Daniher family as we hold them in our hearts today,” Allan said.
Daniher was named Victorian of the Year in 2019 and Australian of the Year in 2025 because of his advocacy, trying to find a cure for the disease he labelled “the beast”.
The Daniher family released a statement, outlining their pride in how he took on his fight against MND with a “cheeky grin and a sharp sense of humour”.
“We’re heartbroken to share that our much-loved husband, Dad and Poppy, Neale Daniher, passed away at home, surrounded by his family,” the statement said.
“From day one, Neale was a fighter. His determination was unmatched – choosing every day to find opportunity where others might see only challenge, and taking the fight to the Beast with everything he had.
“Even in the toughest times, he kept pushing forward, determined to land as many blows as he could against his toughest opponent, all with a cheeky grin and a sharp sense of humour that never left him.”
AFL boss Dillon pointed out that Daniher guided Melbourne to a grand final.
“The passing of Neale is a devastating loss not only for everyone fortunate enough to know him, but for everyone in our community for the selflessness that he represented,” Dillon said.
“Neale was a brilliant player in his time on the field with Essendon, and when injuries cut short his playing career, he was passionate and outstanding coach that guided Melbourne to six finals series.
“But his contribution to wider Australian life was simply incredible in the way he put himself at the forefront, despite the challenge of his own MND diagnosis, to raise awareness of the disease, champion fundraising efforts and search for a cure that he knew would likely not help him, but may help many thousands of other Australians in the future.”
Educated at Assumption College in Kilmore, where he established a mighty reputation as a schoolboy footballer, Daniher was the most talented player in one of the sport’s most famous families, although a knee injury cruelled his playing career with Essendon.
One of 11 Daniher children raised in Ungarie in central NSW, he was zoned to South Melbourne (later to become Sydney) but played his first VFL game for Essendon in 1979 after a complicated trade saga also involving his older brother Terry.
He won the Bombers best and fairest in 1981, at the age of just 20, despite suffering a serious knee injury in the final round.
Such was his talent and leadership, the Bombers named him their captain for 1982. But he struggled to overcome the injuries and never got to lead the team onto the field. He did not play a game for the next three seasons as the Bombers won back-to back premierships in 1984-85 with Terry Daniher as skipper.
In total, he added just 16 games to his career tally in the nine seasons after 1981 for a total of 82 across 12 seasons, the last of which was in round 22 of the 1990 season, when he famously took the field alongside Terry and their younger brothers Anthony and Chris. It was the first and only time four brothers had played in the same team at the highest level, although the quartet did appear for NSW in a State of Origin game earlier that season.
Following his playing days, he became an assistant coach to Kevin Sheedy at Essendon, and then had a similar role at Fremantle before landing the senior job at Melbourne for the 1998 season.
A popular figure among Demons players and fans, he coached the club for 10 seasons, taking them to the 2000 grand final, when they lost to Sheedy’s powerful Bombers.
Demons president Steven Smith said Daniher “was a man of action not words”.
“Neale was not driven by personal motivation, he was driven by helping others, right until the very end,” Smith said.
Essendon president Andrew Welsh said Daniher will “forever be a beloved Bomber and is one of the most remarkable people our game has ever produced”.
“Neale Daniher came to Windy Hill in 1979 as one of the most gifted young footballers in the country,” Welsh said.
“While we never got to see the full measure of what he could have been as a footballer due to persistent injuries, it was his impact on others that truly defined him.”
Brad Green, the former Melbourne player and recently club president, cited Daniher’s favourite line: “When all is said and done, more is said than done.”
“We will play on,” Green said on social media.
Former Demons ruckman Jeff White said Daniher had been his “second dad”.
“He would always say: ‘Health is your wealth’. You’ve left an amazing footprint on so many people, your legacy will live on forever,” White wrote on X.
Daniher took a very public stance in his fight against MND by launching the FightMND charity and the Big Freeze fundraiser which followed it – a concept that has exploded in popularity since its first incarnation more than a decade ago.
Daniher joined forces with two other passionate campaigners – Dr Ian Davis, who was diagnosed with MND at age 33, and Pat Cunningham, the husband of Angie, who was also fighting the disease.
“United by the same devastating reality, these three strangers met for the first time in a little cafe in Hawthorn,” a blurb on the FightMND website says. “But they weren’t meeting to find comfort in their shared sorrow. They came to take the fight to MND and, together, came up with a plan to make it happen.
“In November 2014, FightMND was born.
“A small, humble organisation of three, two of whom had a terminal illness. They often joked that it wasn’t the most sustainable business model.
“But their vision was clear. They would refuse to let MND remain in the shadows. They would push for better funding, better research and real progress.”
Daniher is survived by his wife, Jan, and their adult children Lauren, Luke, Ben and Bec. Lately, as his ability to communicate became compromised because of his illness, Bec became the leading campaigner and voice of MND.
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